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I’m no stranger to long work days — in fact, I’m all too familiar with working 6 days — sometimes through an entire week by simply convincing myself that doing so will be financially rewarding for my bank account. How often do we find ourselves regretting this decision to only find ourselves repeating the process shortly after?

We can find all sorts of excuses to not acknowledge that we might be working too much — to the detriment of our health. We might need money, we might aspire to climb the professional ladder, or we simply work to avoid dealing…


Why We Don’t Talk About Grief

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I am no stranger to grief. I have had loved ones pass away far too young and others who have lived full lives before passing. I’ve experienced losses of people who are still alive that I never thought I’d lose. I have had life experiences that resulted in losses to my physical and mental health that changed me forever.

At the start of my career as a young therapist, I found myself actively avoiding working any type of bereavement. In my personal life, I moved through life never quite dealing with my losses in…


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In our fast paced world, we equate work with productivity sometimes working ourselves to the detriment of our health as we push to meet our quotas of success. We often put work before our needs and ignore our health symptoms until they have reached a level of severity that rattles our attention. Porous boundaries in both personal and professional life can create a level of stress that can be hard to shake off.

Job stress is not unusual — even if you love what you do for work. We have long accepted that stress comes with the job description —…


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Childhood wounds are not just the wounds we get from falling off of the monkey bars as kids on the playground. They are the wounds and painful experiences that have been imprinted in us from our youth. These are our first memories of painful experiences that when left unhealed — leave lasting negative effects well into adulthood.

These wounds represent moments where we felt abandoned, betrayed, humiliated, and hurt that have been buried deep within our bodies and subconscious. As children, we don’t try to make sense of these experiences like we would as adults — picking them apart. Or…


5 Ways Deactivating Social Media Helped Me

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Although, social media can be an excellent tool in connecting those over long distances, promoting a cause or in marketing a business — we should be mindful of how we utilize it and the impact of daily use. I am in no way blaming social media for any stress or challenges that I have experienced however, I do recognize that in setting a limit — I realized the following:

1.) My sense of awareness amplified. When you’re “connected” through social media, the temptation to open the app or website is there. Whether it’s…


The Other Side of Addiction

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Photo by: Jeshu John

We hear and read about statistics of overdose deaths, the effects alcohol and drugs may have on the brain and body, police blotters outlining arrests for possession or DUI’s but we don’t hear about the “other side” of addiction too much. The side where families, spouses, or friends helplessly watch their loved ones spiral into addiction and the lifestyle that it entails. In fact, I find it to be a topic that most avoid to ever bring up.

What is it like to silently suffer in pain and heartache in this way? This kind of…

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